Sunday, March 27, 2011

I'm Back (+more...)

Hey guys, I'm back! 

Today, I'd like to talk about changing personalities. I'm bringing this up because it was one of my IRL problems that forced me to step away from the computer and deal with real life. 

I have this one friend; we were best friends for 5 years. One of our longest running jokes was making fun of those popular people with identical personalities and too much makeup--I think we all have those people in our lives at some point or other. 

Well wouldn't you know it: the moment we stepped into middle school, she found a cozy little niche with the exact sort of people we used to ridicule. 

Excessive makeup, swearing, the "I-don't-care" attitude, and the too-short skirts. Two years later, she was a carbon copy of them. 

During the 2 years, we talked less and less. She had her friends, I had mine. Whatever plans we made always ended up being really awkward. Things had changed.

Well, who am I to judge her? No one. I'm not trying to say that it was her fault--a part was mine as well--but I guess it came down to this: the people we were were best friends, but the person she and I are now don't click. 

And it's not surprising, people change; it's the natural progression of life. 

...I had a point I wanted to make but in the middle of writing this, I lost it. So I bid you a 'hello' and 'farewell'. Oh, and thanks for listening to my sob story.

Jess. 

P.S. Yes, I am back. But just saying: I'll probably be just as lazy as before with posting.  

3 comments:

  1. i used to have a friend like that, we even played wizard101 toghether. Then someelse came along he turned him into a halo freak then we became enemys.

    ~Sean Nightfist

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  2. I'm going through exactly what you are going through. Exactly down to the D. It's not fun at all

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  3. Hey!
    I wasn't exactly sure where to comment this, so i just kinda picked this post.

    I LOVE your blog! I stumbled upon it and have found it very interesting (:

    ~A Magus Lifey

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